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Adolescents. A seemingly rich object. Parents do not understand, can not understand, and God help them if they must eventually be included. But since the movie "Mean Girls," asserting that the problem is that the brain was embedded in women exposed to each of them, so I think that the exploration for both inspire me, as so often in these situations, the chaos and total anarchy "Girl World" are in reality. TheThe cinema has given us all a bed of roses in this world of small groups and malice "can-you-think-she-said .." It was like a secret society, a taboo subject, the girls were friendly and kind and good players. Incorrect. Hell, I do not know how the girl in the world and it was my natural habitat for 18 years. Sure, my bad I was young, now that all the wise, I think I was happy to come to live at all, because I lived without this information at my disposal, butwho am I to deny someone.
If you, or are young girls, "Girl in the World" will be scared.
The experience, the complex workings of the mind of a young man seeking his way to the top of the social scale, or better yet a girl, not a desperate attempt to increase during the fight with their feet is to decipher the mouth is certainly a concept rather uncomfortable. Certainly, there is still much better than the popularity and social status, but we must not only beyet.
The explanation of the policy (Yes, it is a system of political work girls, scary huh?) The daughter of an alien world may seem small and superficial. Some cases are obviously more extreme than others and behaviors vary, but it is a common playground for typical teenage girl, with multiple levels of rules underlying the concerns, conflicts, feelings and beliefs to the world's population connected Girl.
It 's my mission to sharewith you the secrets of this place ... if you dare.
Children are cruel, it has been said a thousand times, But it's true and you end up with no injuries, time Pull her hair or face, in fact, I am sure that the cruelty of girls have been exposed to policy, agreed by saying that physical aggression is almost a breath of fresh air, if you live in Girl World. Look, the worst damage to adolescents of today is much more brutal attackis more than you. subtle intimidation, the boy who plays with your mind. The type of intimidation that makes the issue more, but if it happens to everyone. E 'for all the girls in high school in a past time and my goal is to shed light on this phenomenon and the gravity of the situation, not the people - the wrong side of "good girls".
something that many people do not realize that functions can be found in the cliquegirls in each group, the group of any size, anywhere - all are guilty of some things that raise concern Girl World.
In the spirit of a girl
It is a strange concept in the mind of a child.
A world full of paranoia, vulnerability, compliance, pressure, manipulation - and this is her friend!
To understand and appreciate how a girl thinks you're the world we live in, understand.
Here's a small worldBrief:
* Girl world is run like any business. Is there a role for each state, up or down, the survival of the fittest, or in some cases bitchiest.
* Heads of State and Government, are more like ruthless dictators, and the environment in which thinking and start the races is madness.
* Every time you turn is a threat, you should let your enemies to keep them out, if you climb the ladder before you start.
* There areStandards need to live, to maintain law and when it is consumed by the young girl in the world, is to make the greatest sacrifice of all - their own
If this seems difficult for you, you were right.
Girl in the world, there are many rules to follow, but the strange thing is that nobody really knows what the rules are, until someone breaks and suddenly everyone is very positive about what it is and is not acceptable.
Above all, everyone wants, especially girls, to adaptmembers must be included. Studies have shown that girls in particular, often depends on peer relationships in adolescence rather than on their relationship with their parents or siblings. Girls are twice as likely to consider suicide if their friends or feel isolated.
The girls are generally required to interact with their peers, to feel safe in a group. Men tend to better address the other major groups.
If a girl does nota friend who can influence can do much about how it works and how it feels inside to talk. Therefore, the policy of the girl in the world is so important for girls ridiculous and extremely worried about their parents, teachers and the community. The worst part is that they are really their own worst enemies.
Another interesting study I found said that girls were more at risk of suicide, as if people called their friends, no other nameFriends. The dynamics of the group and their friends will think more of a problem that most people.
It 'hard to understand how a group of teenagers and others to drive on the audit of serious issues such as self harm and suicide. It 's definitely a problem and the worst is that it is so difficult from the outside, more terrifying, sometimes it's hard to see, visible from inside.
Girl in the world, every girl is a doer - a subtle aggression is the key to breaksomeone. eyes and turned to ignore someone, sarcasm aside - some of the joys of being a girl. The worst and most frightening of all, we know these things without others, including parents and teachers that happens.
A young girl is not bullied or isolated teased by his clique believes that these girls are your friends, and that something terrible must have tried to do so. I know it sounds crazy, but also take into accountIf you live in a world that she is a brave girl who has just entered and left the group of friends is that you have. It seems impossible and not worth the risk.
It is not uncommon to hear a girl say something along the lines of: "It 's best in a group that likes to do according to the same places in the yard." This is how you live.
school is scary enough without the rules, expectations and paranoia that accompany adaptation to a group of friends. Girlsare uncertain at this stage of their lives and what they are trying everything seemed confused at the right time. Everyone knows how to pass the time to reach the mass of other children in each class of time the bell rings at school, but you can imagine what I love more aware and concerned about what happens to every person you you? It 's the fear paralyzing the decision, which involves destroying daughter "something their peers.The traditional idea that someone else makes you look bad, ultimately, help you look good.
If the bullying is not thin, you can not imagine how. One wonders how and why we continue to associate with these girls, when the harassment? Why not?
Easy in theory. But nothing is simple in Girl World.
"Queens and Wannabes, Rosalind Wiseman author defines the girls of the world in a brilliant metaphorBuilt like a genius, which is something like;
Imagine High School is a cruise. There are regular activities everything is very well known, and when someone violates someone will help them recover. It 's a girl on the boat, and suddenly you see all the other girls say that the ship is stupid and it's time to get up, like lemmings falling off a cliff. Sale of safety for the safety of shipping and boarding a life raft with the first girlSeer. life raft adrift Girls, then begins to wonder how I got here? Why should I abandon ship? The waves are huge! There is a limited quantity!
Now the boat is far away and are stuck with these girls, they must link with them, to survive, not stupid, but it is not on board the boat with these young girls who may not necessarily, or cast into the sea. Remains and hopes that things will improve untilI hope she keeps. Sounds dramatic, but the raft click, sometimes a matter of life or death, to feel young. Of course, you can not use the metaphor Rosalind cited, But there are girls who are not afraid to swim rather stay Than to enjoy life rafts. These girls are often stronger for the fight, sometimes swimming to the ship, or they could find another set of all the different roles and personalities inside girlWorld.
As a child, there are different types of girls, and we must give credit to the sophistication of their social structure. daughter of positions in the world are not always filled, even the girls are always described as extreme in any position like me. Even a girl can change the Grace'm was falling apart, but when I am sure that the description of the girls who know or have known before he became that these stereotypes are Widespread foreignwhere in the world are women.
In life, we hear the stereotypes, are among people in society. Although generally not stereotype, I will complete the second part of this article with some, a description of the types of girls to give birth to a daughter from the powerful and objectives.
Hoping that some of this article has developed a kind of stimulus to the thought of someone out there that the teacher or a parent, brother or sister, or localDaughter of a resident of the world.
To conclude this first installment, I would say that it is time worth investing in the mind of a teenager, but a place that could be scary. Long term, the inner mind of an adolescent to determine the ideas and thoughts that the adult form. If we can not control how these girls can for each other through the bad influence and can support the behavior that you know how to help a large numberAdolescence is make you lose your way Girl World.
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